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ShellsWA
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Posted in Getting started 14 Jan 2020
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Day 4 into no yucky smokes but the momster is in my head

I haven't got cravings as such just the demon in my head. I tell him to go and annoy some one else I don't want or need you near me. Does anyone else have or had this problem. How long does it last felling strong but frustrated

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  • Jill67 January 14, 2020 | 12:41
    Hi Shells WA!
    Yes, I was absolutely where you are!! No real physical cravings but the junkie thinking was in my head. All of the psychological babble!
    It really helped me to stay busy...I read the Allen Carr book as well...as just committed to getting thru one day at a time! It is definitely getting better!! You can DO this!! If the monster is in your head- kick him out, or change the story. Show him a new story where you are powerful, free and smoke free!! Believe in yourself- I believe in you!
  • Happiness January 14, 2020 | 12:48
    let him know who is boss
  • ShellsWA January 14, 2020 | 12:49
    Thank you Jill67 it's getting better as the day goes on
    I have ordered Allan Carrs book should ne here tomorrow (fingers rossed) none of the shops around here had it in stock
  • ShellsWA January 14, 2020 | 12:50
    Thank you Happiness I hope your on the mend
  • Kaz2020 January 14, 2020 | 19:24
    Hi there well done for getting this far! I'm having the same problem I'm not on day five I do have strong cravings but feel they are getting less. It's the voice in my head telling me I will fail and that I need to smoke! I've been smoking 23 years except for one 4 month quit and I just can't picture my life long term without fags! I'm taking it one day at a time and try to put off thinking about it. I also download a app on my phone which I'm finding really encouraging.
  • Nuts January 15, 2020 | 0:32
    Shells, kick that demon to tne curb. No room in your life for nico-monsters. You are the winner. Every day that goes by you will get stronger. Kaz. Change that voice in your head to I will not fail. I will win. You can have a life without smokes. A much better, healthier, and richer life. I thought the same thing, and now i cant picture myself ever smoking again. Both of you, be strong and think like a winner, not a loser 🏁💕
  • softly40, Mid North Coast January 15, 2020 | 7:30
    It is normal to have these thoughts in our heads, our minds trick us into wanting or needing that fix, when in reality the fix doesn't fix us it just brings us down again and again. Find a new voice that belongs to you only, experiment with this and you might enjoy the process. The main over riding Mantra is NOPE not one puff ever, otherwise your resolve flies out the window at the slightest discomfort. Congratulations on day 4, tomorrow is day 5.

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