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The beginning of the end.....

Hi everyone and Happy New Year! I AM GOING TO QUIT after 31 years. My official date to start is 4th January as that is when I go back to work because I think it will be too hard to try to do this while I am at home. I know this is going to be hard, especially since my husband also smokes and currently has no desire to give them up - I am hoping once he sees that I can do it then he will also give it a good try. We have a daughter also who is constantly telling us to stop smoking and I am always lecturing her about how bad it is and how I want to stop but it is so addictive that I cant. I am trying all I can to encourage her not to follow our footsteps on this one nor to bow to peer pressure and take up this horrible addiction, and I know in doing this that I am being a bit of a hypocrite. I also know that the best way to teach children is to lead by example. I have lost family members to smoking disease and don't want to let my child see this happen to me as well - I have made it no secret that those relatives died as a direct result of smoking in an attempt to maybe scare her out of taking up the habit. I will be logging in regularly to follow other's attempts and hopefully get support to help myself. Good luck to all and all the best for 2012 as a smoke free start to the rest of your healthy life.

Good luck LearBear if u have your mind set to quit on this date im sure u will do it its like u said breaking the addiction,im sure nobody on here will say aghh its easy nothing to it !!! Its not easy i have beeb smoke free for just over 4 weeks even now i still get the craving for one,thats when u kick in with will power.I feel a lot better i go for a walk twice a day u need to keep your mind busy.Remind yourself whom u r quitting for.It is a addiction and im sure u will succeed in quitting there are plenty of people on here whom will give u advice were all on here for the same reason TO QUIT.Good luck Happy New Year

All the best to you LearBear and congratulations for committing to quitting.
This is day one of not smoking for me. Am patched up and feeling good. Very determined not to smoke anymore. My partner also smokes and is procrastinating about giving up. I make sure I keep busy inside the house when I know he has ducked out the back for a quick ciggie. On the way to work today I mentioned where the patches are and I think he might give them a go. Feels good to lead the way.
This forum is a fantasic support.Look forward to hearing your progress!
Happy New Year!