This is me searching for a hint or tip. I am at day 12 no smokes, all is going well, feeling slightly down but nothing too drastic. I am however constantly worrying about my best friends engagement party in two weeks time. I am a bridesmaid, and until I quit smoking I was over the moon for my girlfriend and her fiancé and was really looking forward to the party, now I am just absolutely dreading it! I feel like I don't even want to go because I'm so scared that I will give in to pressure and cravings etc and undo all the good work I have done. I feel Terrible fOr feeling this way, and I would just die if my girlfriend even knew I was thinking like this. I'm worried I won't be strong enough to resist a ciggerette if I am around other smokers, around alcohol, in a party situation etc. does anyone have any tips or advice??? Help!